tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805439263586500158.post1862143218200285353..comments2024-01-17T22:25:01.611-05:00Comments on Mothers Are Vanishing: Missing Mother, Diane Corado: A Victim of Intimate Partner ViolenceDelilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09129593439262648032noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805439263586500158.post-26889049351528568142011-06-29T17:08:53.213-04:002011-06-29T17:08:53.213-04:00Okay if you knew the victim so god dam well then w...Okay if you knew the victim so god dam well then why are you making shit up. I knew here VERY well. Actually I am her family!!! And you don't know wth you are talking about. Maybe you should shut your freaking mouth if you know whats good for you and leave people alone. I have been suffering for months and I stumble upon your dumbass comments. She wasn't "sleeping around" with him. They were in a relationship for YEARS. He never cheated on her and he never laid a hand on her until the day he kidnapped her. ANd he did so because she was SMART enough to leave him. And it was hard because she cared for him. But now you are racist saying that becauase she is white this happend and becauase he is black he cheats and beats women. Hmmm thats great to say....NOT. I wonder how many people would kick your ass for you dumb ass comments. Who do you think you are coming in and saying dumb ass things that make no sense and are completely false. Grow up and shut up!!!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805439263586500158.post-65050359508142245542010-12-29T21:59:07.229-05:002010-12-29T21:59:07.229-05:00I happen to know the victim...she is my nursing in...I happen to know the victim...she is my nursing instructor...it is a sad situation all the way around...and I am truly disgusted by the previous comment about the fact that she is white and the perpetrator is black. I happen to be a black female who believes regardless of race color social class whatever...violence is violence...and um how about Scott Peterson, Jorgan Vandersloot, hell what about Ted Bundy and John Wayne Gacy.... Um arent they white! like I said violence is violence and its wrong who ever does it...and believe it or not Ms Anonomyus...there are a whole lotta fine good brothers out there my daddy my son my brother in law and my husband happen to be one of many! Evil comes in all colors shapes and sizes....and before you start judging other folks look at your damn self!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805439263586500158.post-39086207694856100282010-12-28T07:58:48.493-05:002010-12-28T07:58:48.493-05:00I'm also disheartened that there has not been ...I'm also disheartened that there has not been any news since Christmas Eve, however, from being involved with missing persons and their families, I do know that it's up to the friends and family to keep this case alive and not allow it to go cold. Many times law enforcement runs out of leads and the investigation slows down.<br /><br />There are many things friends and family members can do, especially keeping the squeaky wheel turning. I would suggest visiting the website of http://peace4missing.ning.com for a lot of support and ideas.<br /><br />I know that you all are feeling very helpless right now, but you must keep up the hope that she will be found and that justice will be served, she deserves that.<br /><br />If anyone knows how, create a website for tips and information, create a Facebook page for awareness and a place to gather with your comments. If anyone would like to do those things and if you need help, please contact me, I'll be happy to put you in touch with those who can help.<br /><br />The most important thing is to not dwell on blame, but dwell on hope and do all you can to find her and bring her home.<br /><br />If the family wishes to, they can register her case with CUE Center for Missing Persons. There is no charge for them to be involved or conduct searches. You will find a link to the site on the right. They are an excellent organization that will work with the family.<br /><br />I hope we hear something soon, and that her friends and family can all come together to support each other.Delilahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09129593439262648032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805439263586500158.post-83285461011802720552010-12-27T21:48:35.430-05:002010-12-27T21:48:35.430-05:00I don't want to use the past tense, but I work...I don't want to use the past tense, but I worked with Diane also. In fact, I just saw her on the Friday before she disappeared. She was so very much alive that it was a big blow to all of us that she is gone. We wait every day for news about her, some still holding out hope, others not so much.<br /><br />While the observation of interracial dating may be true about the workplace Diane & I worked at, it's unfair to relate partner violence with race, and specifically aim the blame of violence on the black man and blame the poor judgment of the white woman. Whoever this is who posted that observation, I would like to say that given we work at a psychiatric & addictions facility, you should know better than to say that. Battered women's shelters exist for a reason. No woman walks into a relationship expecting to be abused. Unfortunately for those who do, it's hard to get out because once the cycle of violence starts, it's pretty much curtains. <br /><br />Anyway, thank you Delilah for opening up this forum of discussion. It has been very disheartening to see no new updates on Diane in the media since Christmas Eve.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805439263586500158.post-57748298115463315942010-12-27T20:19:36.924-05:002010-12-27T20:19:36.924-05:00I knew Diane from a previous job also. She had wor...I knew Diane from a previous job also. She had worked for years as a waitress who put herself thru school and became an RN. She was an excellent nurse. She had a bit of a 'tough gal' attitude but was very caring. She was smart enough to break up with the guy. Fact is-he did break her door down. It's a shame he was out on the street to do this since he should have still been in jail for his prior offense of doing about the same thing. It's a shame Diane didn't take some extra precations (like get a gun, etc) since it sounds like the guy must have threatened to kill her at some time in the past. My heart goes out to Diane's family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805439263586500158.post-50788813861460201532010-12-27T08:24:15.786-05:002010-12-27T08:24:15.786-05:00Anonymous,
Thank you for leaving a comment and giv...Anonymous,<br />Thank you for leaving a comment and giving your insight. However, intimate partner violence sees no boundaries due to gender, race, religion, ethnicity or economic background, it's very complex and is more an issue of power and control according to all the experts.<br /><br />Women (and men) must make a very conscious decision to get away from the abusers and they must follow a rigid plan to do this safely. <br /><br />The best thing you, and anyone else in your circle of friends, can do is to bring awareness to this type of situation. You can find expert information to either read or use to educate others at www.susanmurphymilano.com or www.saferelationshipsmagazine.com<br /><br />If you have questions or need further help, don't hesitate to ask or contact me. <br /><br />I hope and pray that Patterson will tell authorities where Diane is, I know it's the most important thing for her friends and family right now.<br /><br />Take care,<br />DelilahDelilahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09129593439262648032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805439263586500158.post-43363537308820221562010-12-27T08:16:40.729-05:002010-12-27T08:16:40.729-05:00Let me first say it is a terrible tragedy. I knew ...Let me first say it is a terrible tragedy. I knew the victim. But when will some of these women learn? The place where the victim once worked is full of white women who sleep around with the black men that work there. This pattern happens over and over again. The guy stops working, is supported by the white girl, he usually has a substance problem, starts beating up the white girl and always cheats on her. Again, a horrible tragedy but we won't decrease the number of victims unless these women start using some common sense and make better choices.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805439263586500158.post-40111981477802597022010-12-26T19:11:28.955-05:002010-12-26T19:11:28.955-05:00They should have executed his nasty ass. He's...They should have executed his nasty ass. He's not giving up her location anyway & the residents of PA should not have to pay taxes to keep this sort of scum sucking woman beater alive. When the hell are the courts ever going to learn in this country about repeat offenders?!?!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com