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Sunday, May 13, 2012

Mother's Day for Missing Mothers 2012




You have always been where we return,
The home that is our harbor from the sea,
The place where what we are can easy be,
With nothing we need alter or unlearn.

That you would give has always been a given.
Your love for us is something simply there,
As plain and necessary as the air,
And just as unpretentious and unbidden.

And though I cannot give you now your due,
Which is beyond what these poor words can say,
I give you all I can this special day,
Which is the treasure of my love for you.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Rebecca Lynn Simmons Missing From Anderson County,SC FOUND




Each morning as I check my email, there is a Google alert for missing persons from South Carolina, my home state.  Usually I know about most of the missing because of networking on Facebook and various missing persons sites, however, I had not heard of Rebecca Lynn Simmons who has been missing since May 8, 2011 from a WalMart parking lot in Anderson County.

Two things bothered me about this particular missing mother.  The first thing I do is check the news stories, other missing persons sites, Google and Facebook to see if there is further information about the case.  As I found the page on Facebook that her family members put up (with only 55 "likes") I was struck by something sounding familiar.  One of the members posted a response from one of their local news outlets:

"...investigators say they don't believe foul play is involved or that she is in any danger. Please know I realize you and your family are still concerned about her well being. Because she is an adult and investigators don't believe she is in harms way (at this time) there's nothing I can do story wise." (June 30)

Unfortunately, this is a typical response when an adult goes missing. The first news reports didn't go out until July 13.  This is outrageous! Two months have passed and no one has taken the pleas of this family seriously.  Precious evidence is already gone which could have clues as to what happened to Rebecca Lynn Simmons.

The second thing that bothered me greatly was the last place she was seen was a WalMart parking lot.  Memories of Alice Donovan came flooding back to me.  Alice was one of the first missing mothers I wrote about, the case from which this blog was born.  Luckily, her family knew to check certain records immediately and were able to get investigators to react quickly.  Although Alice was abducted, tortured and murdered, her killers were caught and are now on death row.  Her remains would not be found for 6 years, leaving the worst nightmare for her daughters and other family members to live through.

News accounts say that Rebecca Lynn Simmons had an active warrant for a probation violation.  Perhaps she wasn't on the right side of the law, and that's a reason that authorities believed she may have walked away from her life, but it's not a good enough reason not to actively look for her.  Her family, as thousands of others, didn't know what to do first, she wasn't reported missing until May 31, again, losing precious time.
Simmons’ mother, Jewell Craig, said she has kept a picture of her daughter in her pocket since she disappeared. "It just makes me feel a little better. Even though I don't know where she is, I got this and I can say, 'I love you,' to her picture," said Craig. "When I change my shirt, I take it out and put it in my clean shirt."




The family of Rebecca Lynn Simmons has entered the world of the missing.  It's a world where no one has chosen to be, but are thrust into it by circumstances.  My hope is that they will be able to connect to the good people who will do what they can to help.  They need many, many different kinds of help, from support to passing out flyers, from prayer to someone to assist them with law enforcement and media attention.  

Perhaps they will contact CUE Center for Missing Persons to get that help.  Monica Caison and her group of volunteers are the best in the nation and can possibly make a change in direction for this missing mother case.
CUE Center can be reached 24 hours a day at 910-232-1687.

Rebecca Lynn Simmons had no money, and her cell phone has been cut off since she went missing.  Authorities, two months later, admit there may be foul play connected with her vanishing. 

Simmons is described as 5 feet 7 inches tall with blonde hair, hazel eyes and tattoos on both sides of her neck.

Simmons’ family has also set up a Facebook account dedicated to finding her.

To see the Facebook page, click here.

Lynn was driving a 1994 Ford Ranger. The tag expired on 5/31/2011. The truck is GRAY and the bottom is spray painted BLUE.

Anyone with information is asked to call the Anderson County Sheriff’s Office at 864-260-4400.

http://www2.wspa.com/news/2011/jul/13/anderson-county-investigators-searching-missing-wo-ar-2106341/?referer=None&shorturl=http://bit.ly/nxo9rk

UPDATE

July 15, 2011........Rebecca Lynn Simmons has been found.

ANDERSON, SC (FOX Carolina) -
The Anderson County Coroner's Office said Friday that a body found in an abandoned well on Thursday was that of a woman missing since May.
The well was located on property in a remote area off Hurricane Creek Road.
Chad McBride, of the Anderson County Sheriff's Office, said an investigator was at the property when he looked down into the well and saw what appeared to be human remains at the bottom.
Crews were sent into the well and determined that the investigator did indeed see a human body.
The Anderson County Coroner's Office said Friday afternoon that the remains are that of 45-year-old Rebecca Simmons.
Simmons's family said she had been missing since May 8.
Watch FOX Carolina News at 6:30 p.m. and 10 p.m. for the latest on this developing story.


Monday, January 10, 2011

Looking For Lily: Investigation Heats Up For Lily Aramburo



When first hearing about missing mother, Lily Aramburo, her little son, Palden, was not even a year old, only a baby.  Remembering his first birthday, and second, and can't believe that he is now 4 years old and being raised by his grandmother, growing up too fast without knowing his mother.


To see that a new detective is being assigned to the case is like breathing fresh air! A new set of eyes and a new direction is what this case needed, in my opinion.  Lily's friends and family have done every kind of awareness campaign available, taking all the necessary steps to keep Lily's case out there, but without the help of an active investigation, there have been no answers.  Now, there is hope.


Facebook Support Page for Lily Aramburo:  http://www.facebook.com/pages/Help-Find-Lily-Aramburo/193954499815


From CBS Miami:




Lucely Saldina says she is not giving up, she is determined to find her daughter.

It has been more than three years since Lily Aramburu vanished, and nowMiami-Dade Police tell CBS4 that they are stepping up their involvement in this troubled case, and they are also asking for the public’s help.

Aramburu was 23 when her boyfriend says he last saw her leaving their apartment not far from the Dadeland Mall. She has not been seen since.

“Lily represented everything that I knew that was good to me and always wanted,” said Saldina, whose Dania Beach apartment is filled with photos of her daughter and her grandson, Palden.

Palden, 4, now lives with Saldina.

“She represented happiness to me,” Saldina told CBS4’s Peter D’Oench, as she fought back tears. “Hope is always there. I just want to find out if she is out there. Is she alive?”

Bud Aramburu had a problem.

“She was involved with drugs but was getting her life together,” Saldina said. “She was going to drug court and she had everything to live for.”

Her little boy, Palden, was just 6 months old when she disappeared.

“The baby meant everything to her, she has a reason to stay alive,” Saldina said. “But I am realistic enough to realize that she may not be alive… I know somebody out there knows something.”

While there are no clues as to what might have happened, Saldina said “I know that Lily did not just disappear. She is a human being. She is a daughter and a mother. And that must be respected.”

Saldina and Private Investigator Joe Carrillo have been circulating flyers describing Aramburu; she was 4-feet and 11-inches tall and weighed just 100 pounds. Her hair is brown and her eyes are hazel. She has pierced ears, a scar on her left hand and a scar on her lower abdomen. And she has two large, distinctive music symbols tattooed on her lower back.

Aramburu also had previously broken her right wrist and back.

Aramburu also has a medical condition and may need medication.

Carrillo said some key, potential witnesses have not come forward.

“We’ve attempted to speak to them,” Carrillo said. “And when you’re asking for help from people who know her and they won’t help, that raises some big red flags. I think there’s people out there who know who they are. We’ve managed to identify two groups of people who are of interest to police.”

D’Oench also spoke to the lead detective in this case Ray Hoadley who has just been assigned to this case.

Hoadley has been a detective for 25 years with Miami-Dade and says that it is too early to have additional details in this cold case.

“We’d like anyone who is in her circle of friends or anyone who was around her at the time she disappeared to come forward,” said Hoadley.

“There’s some people out there who we have made contact with. I don’t know if they are deliberately trying to avoid us or whether it’s just that they are out of town,” Hoadley said.

“Are you eager to solve this case?” asked D’Oench.

“Absolutely,” Hoadley answered.

Saldina’s daughter has been featured on billboards and posters statewide since 2007, and Saldina says she welcomes the stepped-up efforts by Miami-Dade Police.

“Solving this would mean closure,” Saldina said. “It would mean answers. Answers for my grandson when he asks what happened to his mother.”

Anyone in the public who knows anything about this case is urged to call Miami-Dade Crimestoppers at 305 471—tips.


Other Current News Stories about Lily..........


http://justiceinmiami.blogspot.com/2011/01/lily-in-news-thank-you-cbs4.html


http://blogs.miaminewtimes.com/riptide/2011/01/police_suspect_missing_mom_lil.php

Friday, December 24, 2010

A Christmas Tree for All the Mothers Vanished


you may not be here on Christmas Day, but you are never forgotten....

a tree for each of you, wherever you are, and a prayer that you will be home to decorate it next year.

your tree may look a little bare, but it's because it, too, is missing the bright and shiny spirit you bring.

be home next year for the children who wait, the family living with pain.

your tree will be here waiting, until then, nothing is the same.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Lacey Gaines: A Mother Murdered, Remembered


Occasionally I will write about a mother who is not missing in the sense of "vanishing," but who is missing from the life of the child or children which will never see her again.

One year ago today, on December 7, 2009, Lacey Gaines was found brutally murdered, lying on the floor in her apartment in Justice, IL.  One year later, ironically, there is no justice served for Lacey's murder, no one has been arrested, nor named a suspect or person of interest.

Cherry Simpson, Lacey's beloved aunt and staunch activist for victim's rights, has pulled out all the stops, asked for help from various expert sources, and yet, the investigation seems to be moving at a snail's pace.  Her offers for outside help from experts have been turned down continuously, but she has been assured by the authorities in charge that this is an active investigation and that the facts will be presented to the District Attorney at the appropriate time, but still.....she waits.

Cherry's relationship with her niece, Lacey, was a special bond of love, life and laughter.  Her remembrances of Lacey's life brings her into the hearts of total strangers and we now know a piece of Lacey through Cherry.  Now that we know her, her murder is personal to us, and we support all efforts to find out who snuffed out her young life and bring that person/persons to justice.

The most heartbreaking aspect of a murdered mother is the child left behind that will never know the warmth of it's mother's touch.  Lacey's son will grow up without the guidance, love and support of his mother, which can not be replaced by another human being.

By gathering together as supporters of justice, advocates and activists, we all mourn the loss of Lacey along with her family.  Through websites, blogs and radio shows, as well as connections with those with influence, we will continue to remember Lacey Gaines and continue to seek justice for her.

A candlelight vigil was held for Lacey on Sat Dec 4th,2010 in Justice, IL (the site of her murder). It was snowing, family and friends handed out brochures looking for answers in Lacey's murder. Lacey's brother closed by saying a beautiful prayer thanking GOD for Lacey and everyone attending.

Please show your support for Lacey, her son and her family by visiting the various sites set up for her:

www.laceygaines.com
Facebook page
Lacey Claire Gaines

If you have infomation, call your anonymous tip into the hotline at 1-800-535-STOP. Your name is not needed, you will be given a code number to remain anonymous.Or you can call Det.Joe Malloy at 708-458-2194

Monday, December 6, 2010

Dawn Meree Boothe and Three Children Missing From Shallotte, NC


Dawn Boothe and Hailey DeCaire


A woman and her three children have been reported missing from Shallotte, North Carolina.

Dawn Meree Boothe, 22, and her three daughters, Hailey Hane DeCaire, 6, Izabelle Maree Kay Boothe, 3, and Annabelle Rosemeree Booth, 2, were last seen on Friday, according to the Brunswick County Sheriff's Office.

Bryan Boothe, the father of the children and husband to Dawn Boothe, reported them missing.

The sheriff's office said they could be in the company of Don DeCaire, Dawn Boothe's father, heading to Michigan.

Dawn Booth has a tattoo of the sun with the words Bryan and Dawn on the upper part of her right arm and a tattoo of "BRB" on her left forearm.

Annabelle Boothe has a scan under her left eye and Hailey DeCaire was last seen wearing blue jeans, a pink shirt, a pink winter coat and black tennis shoes.

Anyone with any information on them is encouraged to contact the Brunswick County Sheriffs Office.

The Sun News

Izabelle and Annabelle Boothe


Monday, November 15, 2010

Marita G. Talley and Three Children Missing From Milwaukee: FOUND SAFE


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As reported from the blogs, Black and Missing but Not Forgotten and LostNMissing, a young mother and her three children are missing from Milwaukee, WI.  The mother, Marita G. Talley, and her three children, Dwight, Mary, and Mariah Turner were last seen at her home on November 6 and reported missing by family members on November 10, 4 days later.

Marita Talley is 26 years old, her son, Dwight 7, daughter Mary, 5 and daughter Mariah, 1.


News reports are not giving very many details on the circumstances of the disappearance, other than Marita Talley has some medical issues which are concerning to authorities.

Anyone with information is asked to call the Milwaukee Police Department Sensitive Crimes Division at 414-935-7402.








UPDATE:

A Milwaukee woman and her three children who were reported missing last week left the city voluntarily and have been found safe outside Wisconsin, a police spokeswoman said Wednesday.
On Monday, the Milwaukee Police Department had requested the public's help in finding Marita G. Talley and her children.
Talley's family reported her missing Nov. 10. They became concerned because they had not heard from her since seeing her Nov. 6.
Photos of Talley and her children were posted on electronic billboards throughout the Milwaukee area this week.
The Police Department did not disclose Wednesday where Talley was found.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

A Mother, Friend and 2 Children Vanished From Ohio: FOUND


Tina Herrmann and Stephanie Sprang, along with two of Herrmann's children, Kody and Sarah Maynard,  remain missing from the small Ohio town of Howard in Knox County.

When Tina Herrmann didn't report for work for two days, a co-worker went to the home to check on her as her boyfriend reported her missing.  Investigators say an unusual amount of blood was found inside the home, causing them to believe there is a possibility of foul play.

Herrmann's abandoned vehicle was found on the campus of Kenyon College and precipitated a precautionary  lockdown of the liberal arts college on the premise there may be someone dangerous on the campus.  Sprang's vehicle was found in the garage at Herrmann's home.

Investigations continue on the ground by several agencies hoping to connect the dots and find evidence that would lead to the discovery of where the four missing persons may be.  Investigators are in the process of constructing a timeline of events as well as focusing on the personal lives, as well as credit card and phone records of Herrmann and Sprang.  As of this writing no activity has appeared for either woman.

The amount of blood found in the home has authorities concerned:
"Someone was obviously injured in the house," Barber said. "The reason there is a focus on the blood is because there is an unusual about of blood in that house. It isn't from someone stubbing they're toe or cutting they're finger while peeling an apple."
 As friends and neighbors in the small town continue to cooperate and aid the search efforts, authorities are asking them to keep an optimistic attitude about the outcome and for anyone with information to come forth.

If you have information contact Knox County Sheriff's Office at (740) 397-3333.


UPDATES:


November 14: 


Sarah Maynard,13, found bound and gagged in basement of home on Columbus Rd. belonging to 30 year old Matthew Hoffman, who was taken into custody.


http://www.10tv.com/live/content/local/stories/2010/11/14/story-mount-vernon-ohio-missing-girl-found.html

http://www2.nbc4i.com/news/2010/nov/14/10/1-person-found-inside-mount-vernon-home-1-taken-cu-ar-290645/

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20101114/ap_on_re_us/us_ohio_family_missing

November 15: 

MOUNT VERNON, Ohio — A sheriff says "there is a possibility" that three people still missing in central Ohio have been killed.




This police booking photo provided by the Knox County Sheriff, shows 30-year-old Matthew Hoffman in Mount Vernon, Ohio. 




Knox County Sheriff David Barber said at a news conference Monday that authorities still want to remain optimistic that 32-year-old Tina Herrmann, her 10-year-old son Kody and another woman, 41-year-old Stephanie Sprang, are still alive.









November 18, 2010



3 Bodies found in Ohio are kidnap rescue Sarah Maynard's missing mother, brother, friend


"Today this investigation took a major turn," he said. "We have discovered and recovered the remains of Kody Maynard, Stephanie Sprang, and Tina Herrmann."
Barber said the bodies were discovered "as a result of information provided by Matthew Hoffman" around 2:30 p.m. on Thursday.
"The bodies were located in a wooded area inside of garbage bags in a hollow tree," he said. "One thing's for sure, is he's had some experience as a tree trimmer."
Prosecutor John C. Thatcher said he could not confirm if Hoffman had given a confession, but called the discovery "the saddest day in Knox County history."





Friday, July 9, 2010

Remember Me? Kimberly Langwell



Just as others who have come after her, many whose names have been in the news or discussed on the internet, Kimberly Ann Langwell somehow knew her demise. She was involved in an unstable connection with an ex-boyfriend, but had begun a new relationship, was very close to her teenage daughter, as well as her sister and family. Kimberly would never walk away from those who loved and cared for her, especially the daughter with whom she shared a special bond.

July 9, 2010 marks 11 years since the evening she left work in Beaumont, Texas, checked in with her daughter, informing her that she needed to stop by the ex-boyfriend’s, and that she would be home within a couple hours. When too much time had passed, her current boyfriend retraced the route she would have taken, and found her abandoned car. Her purse and keys were gone, but left behind were her cell phone and other personal items, items most women would keep on hand if they were walking away to a new life.

Like the others, Kimberly had been threatened and frightened of her ex-boyfriend, who, by the way, has not been named in any news articles I could find. She was frightened to the point of telling her sister that if something happened to her, that she did not commit suicide, and where to look for her body; she intuitively knew something bad was about to occur and wanted someone to know. Unfortunately, it was not enough, and as the years of investigation have gone by, Kimberly is still missing.

Searches of the area around her abandoned car turned up no clues as to what could have happened, and many have speculated that her body could have been dumped in any number of abandoned wells in the area around Beaumont.

As is often the case, the daughter left behind grew up, married and left town. Often the feeling that others look at you differently when you are a survivor of a tragedy, the fact that there are few resources of support, and your own internal pain, cause you to search for new beginnings. Not only will she endlessly search for her mother, she will be endlessly searching inside herself for answers, often re-living the event.

Every July 9, devoted supporter, DeDe Keene of A.M.A.L.P. Ministries, gathers others together and returns to the last place that Kimberly was seen, the parking lot where her car was found, and passes out fliers to spark the memories of those who live nearby. Someone knows something, someone has the clues that will unlock the mystery and someone has the ability to give her family peace.

If you have any information, no matter how small, as to the whereabouts of Kimberly Anne Langwell, please notify the Beaumont Police Department 409.880.3865 or call 911

Last Known Location: Phelan and Dowlen in the parking old of the former Eckerds

Name:   Kimberly Ann Langwell
Nickname:   Kim
Sex:      Female 
Race:   Unknown
Age:   34   YOB:   02-24-65
Height:   5ft 4in 
Weight:   135 lbs
Hair:    Blond 
Eyes:      Blue
Vehicle was located in the parking lot of the old Eckerds store on Phelan and Dowlen. There were no signs of struggle. Her car is a 1994 Silver Nissan Altima.
Case: 99-17661
Beaumont Crime Stoppers - 409-833-8477

Officer Crystal Holmes - 
cholmes@ci.beaumont.tx.us

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Sunday, June 13, 2010

Senator Tom Coburn (R-OK): Why No Support for the Missing?





As a former resident of the great state of Oklahoma, I'm more than surprised that Senator Coburn is showing resistance for The Help Find The Missing Act (Billy's Law) S3019.   Although all Americans are suffering through a bad economy, and I can understand  budget and funding concerns as  mentioned in Senator Coburn's latest newsletter, however, there are other things that affect every American, either directly or indirectly, and one of them is the fact that almost 1 million of our citizens are reported missing every year as recorded by FBI and NCIC reports.  Yes, some return home safely within a few days, but thousands do not, and thousands NEVER come home, but are part of a vast repository of unidentified remains.

The Help Find the Missing Act will act to bridge the gap between the active missing persons cases and those who are unidentified, enabling thousands of families, like the family of Billy Smolinski, to find resolution to their cases.  Many of these families have accepted the fact that their loved one has met with foul play, but not one of them can, nor will, accept the fact that the remains of their loved ones are unable to be found and put to rest properly.

I urge every missing person's websites, databases, family members and supporters to UNITE and help get this important piece of legislation passed into law for the benefit of a national response to the epidemic of missing persons.

Becky Castillo, a volunteer with the San Bernardino County Sheriff Department – Coroner Division, who assists the Unidentified-Missing Persons Coordinator, Deputy Coroner Investigator David Van Norman in handling cases of missing and unidentified persons, has given  a sample letter to send to Senator Coburn on the missing person's support site, Peace4 the Missing.

Please take just a few minutes of your time today and personalize the following sample letter with your own stories or opinions.  If you do not live in Oklahoma, it's best to mail a letter from your post office as emails from outside Oklahoma will most likely not be read.

NOTE:  Remember this is a sample letter, all the facts are here; use some of it, part of it, and in some cases, if you have to, use it all. In the letter you will see (Insert personal story or Oklahoma's statistics) make sure you do this, when you are finished have it be your own.

Senator Coburn,

I am writing this letter in support of pending legislation, Billy's Law




(S3019). According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics, over 4,000




unidentified remains are discovered each year.

After one year, 1,000 of these bodies remain unidentified. With tens of




thousands of people reported missing each year, it is likely that a
family member, friend, or loved one is looking for that unidentified
person and simply can't find them due to the absence of a cooperative




effort by law enforcement across the country.

Some law enforcement agencies have a lackadaisical attitude when they receive a report for the “voluntarily missing” and often there is very little effort to search for them. The problem is when the case goes long term. If there is any follow-up at all, often it is long after the initial report. Often those long term cases have not been resolved because the missing person has died and their remains lay unidentified in a county morgue or cemetery.





(Insert personal story or Oklahoma's statistics)

The problem we face is there is no national protocol in play to assist
investigators to bridge the gap between missing persons and unidentified
persons cases.

The Help Find the Missing Act will bridge the gap.

The National Missing Persons and Unidentified Persons System (NamUs) is
by far becoming one of the best ways for the public and law enforcement
agencies across the country to work together to help bring missing loved
ones home! Since its launch in June of last year, the database of
unidentified decedents and missing persons has proved essential in
solving 16 cases. With the passing of Billy's Law, this number only
stands to grow. Unfortunately, without the funding of Billy's Law not
all law enforcement agencies are able to allocate the resources
necessary to use the NamUs system.

The passing of Billy's Law would make it possible for agencies across
the country to input information on their unidentified decedents,
increasing the number of case resolutions and potentially bringing
closure to families of missing persons all across our country.

I support this funding and hope that you do as well. I respectfully urge
you to pass S3019 when it comes before you.






Respectfully,

More useful information from Becky Castillo:

Unidentified Persons:




There are more than 40,000 unidentified human remains are held in evidence rooms of medical examiners throughout the U.S. but only about 7,000 active unidentified persons cases in entered into NCIC.


Sources:




NCIC Active/Expired Unidentified Person Analysis Report; NCIC Missing Person and Unidentified Person Statistics for 2009








• As of December 31, 2009, there were 7,302 unidentified person records in NCIC.




• During 2009, 1,040 unidentified person records were entered into NCIC


Bureau of Justice Special Report: Medical Examiners and Coroners Offices, 2004; June 2007, NCJ 216756








• 4,400 unidentified human decedents reported in an average year; 1,000 remained unidentified after 1 year
• An estimated 20% of ME/C offices reported they used the FBI’s National Crime Information Center (NCIC) “somewhat often” or “very often” while 80% of ME/C offices reported they “rarely or never” used NCIC




• (California was the only State that mandated information about the unidentified be reported to NCIC within a specified period. About 42% of all records in the NCIC unidentified persons file were from California.)

Side Note: If your missing loved one ended up deceased in a jurisdiction that does not report to NCIC, they may never be identified! NamUs can help to change that!

Missing Persons:




Every year, tens of thousands of people vanish under suspicious circumstances.

On any given day there are approximately 100,000 active missing person cases in the U.S.




(Approximately 2,300 persons are reported missing per day)






Sources:




NCIC Active/Expired Unidentified Person Analysis Report; NCIC Missing Person and Unidentified Person Statistics for 2009








• As of December 31, 2009, NCIC contained 96,192 active missing person records.




• During 2009, 719,558 missing person records were entered into NCIC.


These are only statistics. This is not meant to be used "as is" in the letter. Use it as a resource to state your facts confidently. Your letter must come from your heart...

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Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Charlotte Rexroad: 40 Years Later, Many Questions




Posted Mar 08, 2010 @ 07:00 AM
Martha Woollard had rehearsed a tearful reunion many times. Her mom knocks on the door on Christmas, bearing a gift and an explanation. Or maybe, their eyes meet in the football stadium at her graduation from Garaway High School. Years of waiting, though, became decades. There were no such moments.

All Woollard has is a glossy black-and-white photo of her mom.

“You spend your life scanning crowds, to see if you see her face,” Woollard said.

At baseball games.

While shopping in stores.

On vacations and in her own neighborhood.

Martha Woollard is 46 years old. She holds down a good job as a recruiter at Traditions at Bath Road nursing home. She raised two children and is on her second marriage. She lives in the Kenmore area of Akron and loves her four grandchildren.

She knows where she has been in life and where she’s going.

Woollard, however, isn’t as sure about where she came from.

Her family tree was chopped to pieces on a cold, rainy night in Canton. A night that altered the future of four children left behind. A mysterious and fateful night 40 years ago when her mom left to wash clothes and never was seen again.

Canton in 1970 was home to blue-collar factory jobs. Its population of more than 120,000 was 50 percent larger than today. The present downtown bears only some resemblance to then. The site of the McKinley Grand hotel on Market Avenue S was home to the six-story historic McKinley Hotel. An aging, deteriorating building, which once hosted the likes of Rudolph Valentino and Al Jolson, it had plunged to a point of no return. It became home to down-on-their-luck guests and the overflow of homeless from the nearby Salvation Army.

“We had mostly people living in there by the week and by the month, like rental units,” said attorney George Tzangas, who owned the building.

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A family of six landed in room 50. Four children — Mary Lynn Rexroad, 14, Martha Rexroad, 6, Freeman Wyne Jr., 5, and Margaret Wyne, 4.

Their mom was a pretty woman with a soft, rectangular face and short black hair. Her name was Charlotte Estelle Rexroad. She was tallish but petite, at 5-foot-6, 112 pounds. The only dad the children knew was her live-in boyfriend, Freeman Wyne. A freckle-faced auto mechanic at Schlemmer Buick a mile up the road, he was the father of the two youngest.

Everyone called Wyne by his nickname, “Red,” because of his red hair. He was born in Boggs, a little town in the heart of West Virginia. A drinker with a reputation as a freeloader with sticky fingers, he could take apart a car engine and put it together again inside of two hours. Seemed, though, he never kept a steady job.

“He was a bad actor, as worthless as they come,” recalled one of Charlotte Rexroad’s brothers, Glenn Rexroad Jr.

She often attracted the wrong guy. Her brother had seen it many times before. She had done a stint in the Navy WAVES (Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service), where she had trained as a dental technician in Bainbridge, Md., in 1955. That was long before she met Freeman Wyne. It was at that time that Rexroad got pregnant with her firstborn, Mary. A married Naval officer was rumored to be the father.

Four blocks from the McKinley Hotel, Canton’s lower working class and jobless fraternized in a strip of bars that police officers referred to as “Skid Row.”

On both sides of Tuscarawas Street E, from Rex Avenue to the railroad tracks at Savannah Avenue, nightlife lit up places such as the Landmark Cafe, Newt’s Pool Room, the Modern Cafe, State Burlesk, Factory Bar, the Hub Cafe, and its adjoining Pizzas by Petsy.


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“They were the kind of places that guys would get out of jail, then go over there and spend their last $5 on wine,” recalled retired police officer James Crawford.

It’s the area where Charlotte Rexroad last was seen alive.

To this day, her disappearance is an unsolved, albeit forgotten case at the city police department. People go missing all the time. Always have; always will.

The FBI’s NCIC database, a clearinghouse of missings from around the country, typically numbers more than 100,000 people on any given day. Men and women who can’t be found; don’t want to be found; and some who were killed and likely never will be found.

Martha Woollard’s husband, Jeff, has watched her search in earnest for truth for better than 10 years. Armed with a computer and the Internet, she has scoured dot-coms. PeopleSearch. PeopleSite. Birthfamily. Peoplefinder. Intelius. Findme. Ancestry. Omnitrace. She once paid $800 for a “Miracle Search.”

She has learned bits and pieces about her mom and family.

But no miracle.

She even wrote on Dr. Phil’s message board:

“I am searching for my birth mother ... According to the missing person report, our mother disappeared ... from Canton, OH. She had gone to the laundromat with (Freeman Wyne) and they decided to go to the bar and then the stories change. The entire missing persons report was based on a mean drunk and a scared 14 year old girl.”

Today, Woollard is caught somewhere between truth and hope.

“Do you want to believe that your mother is alive, out there living somewhere and not contacting you?” her husband explained. “Or, do you want to believe she was murdered 40 years ago in a horrific way?”

Neither is a happy ending.

“We never really had a home,” Woollard said of her early childhood. “I remember sleeping in shelters or in cars. And (Wyne) was constantly hitting everybody. For me growing up, he was always the monster, the person I was afraid of. I remember we’d pack up in the middle of the night and move to the next place.”

Her memories are fleeting, though her favorite meal was buttermilk and Oreos.

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On March 11, 1970, a Wednesday, the temperature in Canton peaked at 43 degrees. It cooled in the evening. Some radios in cars cruising through downtown that day and night likely were tuned to the melodic Simon & Garfunkel’s “Bridge Over Troubled Water,” the No. 1 song in the country. Still, there were reminders it was troubling times.

That same day, the Greavu family of Canton Township received word that their 21-year-old son, Billy, lost his life in Vietnam. He was the 89th serviceman from Stark County to die in the war.

In homes all over Stark County, other families sat down to dinner that evening. At the McKinley Hotel, Freeman Wyne and his girlfriend of five years, Charlotte Rexroad, left to wash clothes. It’s not clear if they went to the hotel laundry room, a laundry within walking distance, or if they washed clothes at all. They exited room 50 together, passing others where families were tucked in with their TVs for the night, watching “Hee Haw,” “The Virginian,” “Room 222,” “The Beverly Hillbillies” and “Hawaii Five-O.”

Wearing a pink blouse and blue skirt, with a blue scarf and a gray coat, 34-year-old Charlotte Rexroad wasn’t exactly dressed for a night on the town. After all, she wore brown slippers. Her four children, ages 14, 6, 5 and 4, remained behind in the untidy and often messy hotel room.

After leaving the hotel, Rexroad and Wyne altered their plans. They owned a car at the time, but it is not clear if they drove that night or walked the four blocks to Skid Row on Tuscarawas Street E.

The couple stopped for drinks at either the Landmark Cafe, a now-vacant building on the northeast corner of Cherry Avenue, or at Dee Freconna’s Factory Bar, a rowdy dive with a neon “liquor” sign jutting from the brick building, above the sidewalk. Wyne mentioned both places during interviews later with police.

From there, Wyne and Rexroad went to Benny Petsy’s Hub Cafe and pizza restaurant at 417 Tuscarawas St., across the street from “TNT Girl” Tracy Carroll’s nightly show at the State Burlesk. Again, Wyne provided slightly different accounts of what occurred next, during interviews with police:

Rexroad, he said, was dancing with other men. It was about 8:55 p.m., Wyne said, when he went to the bathroom. When he returned to his seat, she was on her way out the door with another man. In another account, Wyne said Rexroad got up and left with another man and woman, saying she was going to have a good time and that he should do as he pleased.

Wyne said he tried to reason with her to stay, but Rexroad went with the couple and was last seen walking east on Tuscarawas.


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Four years ago, Martha Woollard obtained a copy of the police report about her mom’s disappearance. It didn’t make sense to her. She has watched enough crime shows on TV to know the husband or boyfriend always should be a prime suspect.

Why hadn’t police confiscated Wyne’s clothing? Where were the clothes they supposedly washed? Why didn’t they scour the hotel for clues? Over the years, memories corrode, but to this day, she remembers seeing blood on Wyne’s jeans that night.

“We were always told our mother was a whore, and she left us,” Woollard said.

The children, separated, all landed in the foster care system. The first stop for Woollard, then 6, and Mary Lynn, 14, was at David and Mona Thatcher’s three-bedroom house on Arlington Avenue SW.

On a shopping trip to buy clothes for the girls, the two girls told the Thatchers that it was better than Christmas.

“Mary was a little disturbed then,” recalled David Thatcher, who now lives in Hagerstown, Md. “She said, ‘I think (Freeman Wyne) killed my mom.’ And she’d mention it a lot, over and over at the time.”

All four children eventually were adopted. Mary Lynn went to live with her uncle, Glenn Rexroad Jr., and moved to West Virginia. The three youngest were adopted by Wilford and Gladys Marker in Canton, then moved to Sugarcreek.

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After drinking, Freeman Wyne returned to the McKinley Hotel alone on the night of March 11. Drunk and belligerent, he created a disturbance — enough havoc that patrol officers arrested him on a charge of intoxication. He spent the night in the city jail, then paid a $10 fine and was released the next morning.

The same morning, 14-year-old Mary Lynn, a student at Hartford Middle School, walked to the police station to report her mom missing. She told officers her mom hadn’t come home since leaving the night before 
with Wyneto wash clothes.

“She felt that perhaps the stepfather did something to her, due to the fact that her mother wasn’t the kind of woman who stayed away from home,” officers wrote in their report.

Mary Lynn added that her two younger sisters and brother were at the hotel, where a neighbor named Lovey was baby-sitting them.

Officer James Crawford and detective Lester Kamp went looking for Freeman Wyne. They found him at the Landmark Cafe. They asked what happened with him and Charlotte Rexroad the night before. Wyne said she had been dancing with other men, then decided to leave the Hub Cafe with a man and woman — he said he had not seen her since.

“The writers were not too sure that he was telling a true story at this time,” Kamp wrote in his report. “We did bring this subject back to headquarters with us, where we did attempt to interrogate him further reference his wife; however, he could give us no further information ... he was advised to check the places his wife may go, also with relatives in the city and out of the city, and that he would be contacted later ...”

Officer Crawford brought the children from the hotel back to the station. He contacted Sue Albu of the Stark County Child Welfare office. She put the children, temporarily, in an emergency foster care home on Georgetown Road NE.

Four days later, a Monday, officers spoke to Wyne again. This time at his job at Schlemmer Buick. He told them he still hadn’t seen Rexroad. He went on to explain she’d recently had a cancer operation and hadn’t been herself lately. Wyne said she’d taken no interest in him or her family lately and suggested that’s why she left home.

The investigation appeared to have ended there.

Three years later, police deemed the case inactive but not cleared.

One reason for that decision — the complainant, Freeman Wyne, hadn’t expressed interest in the case since he was last interviewed. 

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Canton Police Lt. Scott Beard said Rexroad’s information is not in the NCIC missing persons database, probably because her case began before it was created in 1975. He, said, though, that he would look into the possibility of entering it. Such a step could be helpful, because police agencies around the country have access to it.

With a similar face and features, Woollard resembles her mother, Rexroad. But there’s plenty that remains a mystery, including the identity of her birth father.

“I want to know where my green eyes, sarcastic wit and quick temper come from,” she said.

Besides scouring the Internet, contacting the military, Social Security office and even far-flung relatives, Woollard and her younger sister, Margaret “Maggie” Seward, have contemplated donating their DNA to compare to unidentified remains.

“I believe she’s dead, that (Freeman Wyne) killed her,” Seward said.

Wyne died at age 76 in 2008, at Raleigh General Hospital in Beckley, W. Va., without ever sharing any more about that night in Canton 40 years ago.

In the fall of 1996, when they had just begun their quest, Woollard and Seward tracked down Wyne. Seward called him at his home in a one-bedroom trailer in Summerville, W.Va. He invited them for a visit.

The half-sisters drove down.

“I was going to confront him,” Woollard said.

They had so many questions for him. They wanted to know more about their mom. Where did Woollard get her green eyes, short temper and sarcastic wit? What happened on that night of March 11, 1970? Why had their mom abandoned them? Even more to the point, did he kill their mom?

“It was disappointing,” Woollard said.

“It was a pretty bizarre visit,” Seward said.

They talked to him for better than three hours, but he confessed to nothing. Confined to a wheelchair, he had suffered a stroke. Wyne told the women he simply didn’t remember much of that night.

Two days after Christmas in 2006, Woollard wrote a letter to her mom — though she had nowhere to send it. In it, she introduces herself. She explains how she has thought of her every day of her life: “My entire life changed March 11, 1970. That is the last time I saw you. So much has happened since that day that I feel we would need years to catch up. Just to have that time with you is all that I want ...”

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Tabitha Franklin, Mother of Three





“I love you, momma,” the seven-year-old scrawled on a sheet of loose leaf paper, written in pencil with occasional misspellings. “We have bin praying for you. We love you and don’t for get us.” by a child to a missing mother find a way to tear at your heartstrings.  Tabitha Franklin is the missing mother of three children who have been writing to her on MySpace and personal notes from home.  It's obvious they are missing her terribly and hoping they are not forgotten.  They don't realize, nor do they know why she is gone from their lives. Hannah, Gavin and Dawson just know that they want their mother home, it's a simple as that.
Tabitha was last seen on August 8, 2009 in Cullman, Alabama and reports say that she left a residence with an ex-boyfriend.  He states that he dropped her off to do some shopping and when he returned to pick her up she was nowhere to be found.
"She had an ex-boyfriend who there was a report of abuse and it was filed and later charges were dropped with threats to the family," says Stacey White, Tabitha's sister-in-law. 
According to the Cullman County Sheriff's office they have exhausted all of the leads they had and are now asking for the help of the public for clues.  Although the authorities are actively investigating the leads that come in, Tabitha's case is not considered a criminal matter.  The family fears otherwise and until there is word from "Tabby" they are pleading for help to find her.


Tabby's family and friends have a Cause page on Facebook where anyone can join and leave messages of encouragement for them.  A little girl writes to her mother:
"I love you mama this is your princess hannah i wish you were here everybody misses you the whole family does and were still trying to figure out where you are i know dawson and gavin loves you you use to call them prince and daddy misses you i love you mommy " 



Name:  Tabitha Franklin 

Alias:  Tabby 
Date of Birth:  09/15/1980 
Date Missing:  08/13/2009 
Age at time of disappearance: 28 
City Missing From: Cullman 
State Missing From: AL 
Gender:  Female 
Race:  White 
Height: 5 ft 6 in 
Weight: 140 lbs 
Hair Color: Blond 
Eye Color:  Blue 
Complexion: Fair 

Identifying Characteristics: Tabitha has 4 tattoos: An angel on her right arm, a scroll on left upper arm, a butterfly in between her shoulders on her back, and a rose on her ankle. She has 2 scars: a c -section scar, and a small scar on her nose. 

Clothing: She was last seen wearing a black dress. 

Jewelry: She usually wears dangling style earrings and often wears necklaces.

Circumstances of Disappearance: She was last seen at a friend's home in West Point , AL. She was then picked up by an adult male acquaintance and driven to Hueytown. The adult male stated that he dropped her off went to do errands and when he returned to pick her up, she was gone. 

Medical Conditions: None known 

Investigative Agency: Cullman County Sheriff's Department 
Agency Phone:  (256) 734-0342 
Investigative Case #:  09010083 Print a Poster: http://www.projectjason.org/aan/AAN_TabithaFranklin.pdf 




UPDATE

Sept 5, 2011
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Monday, February 22, 2010

Killer Wants New Trial?

When I read this news report this morning I literally had to get up and take a walk to blow off steam.  It was like a punch in the stomach that took my breath away!  



Attorney: Fulks should get new trial in killing

Posted: Feb 22, 2010 9:41 AM ESTUpdated: Feb 22, 2010 9:46 AM EST
COLUMBIA, SC (AP) - Attorneys for a man on federal death row after being convicted of kidnapping and murdering a South Carolina woman say their client should not be executed and deserves a new trial.
Chadrick Fulks' new defense team says he should get a new trial because his original lawyers were ineffective. They're expected to begin making those arguments at a hearing Monday in federal court in Columbia. Fulks is expected to appear by video conference from federal death row in Terre Haute, IN.
Fulks and co-defendant Brandon Basham were convicted of killing Alice Donovan during a two-week crime spree after they escaped from a Kentucky jail in 2002.
Attorney Beattie Ashmore says his client's assistance in finding Donovan's remains should be taken into account in determining his fate.

So Chadrick Fulks, a confessed killer, has a new team of attorneys saying that his original team was ineffective.  Ineffective at what!?  Fulks and Basham got caught, were convicted and sentenced to death.  Why do they have the right to a "do-over?"  Alice Donovan and Samantha Burns are still dead, they will never have a chance at a "do-over!"
I'm so sick of hearing about killers and their rights!  What about Alice's rights, what about Samantha's rights?  What about the rights of their surviving families?  Our justice system has gone insane when they grant convicted killers more than enough legal representation, paid for by taxpayers, when the families of the victim can barely pay for a funeral in many cases!  What about their rights!?
So Fulks and his new attorney feel that because he finally told where he and Basham stashed Alice's body that he is hoping to get a pass on his death sentence?  What the attorneys didn't say was that it took him 6 damned years to do it!  Could this be the reason Fulks has lead searchers for Samantha Burns on a wild goose chase based on his information? Samantha has yet to be found!  Does he think that Samantha's family should take that into account when he asks for a new trial?
The insanity has to stop!  I will remind you that this is not a questionable case where circumstantial evidence convicted Fulks and Basham, where DNA evidence may prove them innocent.  I've read the appeal  where they told every grisly detail of what they did to their victims.  They were found guilty and sentenced to death and these families will not find peace until the evil stops rearing it's ugly head as a reminder.
It doesn't matter that Alice Donovan found a happy life in South Carolina, or that Samantha Burns was working towards a good career, these two snuffed out everything for them and their families.  
Frankly, I'm sick of them, period.   Yes, Angie, "with bells on."


COMMENT FROM ALICE'S DAUGHTER:

This whole thing is just utterly crazy and I can't even believe that it is happening. I never thought or dreamed in a million years that we would be in this situation six years later. In 2004 we sat in a federal court room and listened to what he and Basham did to our mother. We saw their clothes, we saw pictures and we saw video of them carjacking my mother. I had to get on the stand and testify because I was the person that my mother spoke to while she was captured and then I had to get up on the stand again for the Victims Impact Statement. I had to sit in the court room for hours starring at the back of this bastards head. And never once did he look at me or the rest of my mothers family. He is the biggest coward I have ever seen...We had to listen to his ex-wife tell us about how he abused her and the little baby Miles..This man is a monster no matter how you look at him...And just because he "finally" decided to lead people to my mother does not make him a decent human being...To me he is still the piece of shit that raped and murdered my mother and he deserves to die!

I honestly don't know what I am going to do if I have to go through another trial. The agony of it all is more than words can explain..I can remember when we were told that the jury had come to a verdict. We all walked into the court room..The court room was full to the point where people were standing. The room was full of federal court marshalls..And as we sat there waiting for the jury to enter and give the judge their verdict it seemed like eternity. As the judge read the paper, my mind drifted off to a far away place and I could barely hear his voice. With tears falling from my eyes, and my inner voice begging for him to die...And then I heard the judge say death....With the tears still streaming from my eyes, I smiled with relief and began to sob for my mom....Justice was served or so I thought.....




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